Do you ever...
say happy anniversary on the date of each month that you were married (like if you were married on the 5th then the 5th of every month, you would say happy anniversary to your 'honey')? Is that insane? Is that normal? We did it for the longest time. The longest. Then it fell away. It used to be a race for us; who would say it first in the morning. We did it on the date of our anniversary AND the date of our first date. I remember it would make me happy in a silly way to recognize that date with him. It has just dawned on me this morning that it is our pseudo anniversary again, the 5th of the month. And it dawned on me too that we don't do that silly thing anymore. Sad. Is it that we have been married officially too long? No. I don't think so. It's just one of those things that falls away I suppose. Well, so I told him right when I remembered what today was. So I won this time :). We also used to keep track of the months; like this is the 127th month we've been married. Crazy silly things that keep you young at heart. Right? I was just talking with Ivan this morning about our first times....our first date, our first kiss, the first time we sat in the moonlight at a beach, the firsts are always thrilling aren't they? If you aren't careful, they're easy to forget too. Can't forget what got you to where you are, that's for sure. Those things are like building blocks. Who ever thought a first date or a first kiss would be a building block? Funny.
Only I could think it....
You cook, you clean, you go to work, you nourish, you love, you scold, you are professional and yet you hang your hat on every dust particle in your home. You are a woman. Some women are Moms and some are not. You are still a woman. We are all made similarly. We are strong.
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